The Road To 100

March 30, 2010

Say Goodnight, Bogey

Filed under: Reflections — coachbogey @ 1:13 AM
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I have always been able to connect with people younger than myself.

Age has never bothered me.  I often joke about my age because I am usually the oldest in the group.  As a teacher, joking about my age made perfect sense.  I was always considerably older than my students and it provided me the opportunity to demonstrate to my students that it is OK to laugh at yourself.  I was able to teach them how to joke around with an adult without crossing “the line.”  My students have almost always said that they didn’t think of me as old, even though I was older than most of their parents.

A team I coached 17 years ago. I still hear from these players.

As a basketball coach, I have always related well with my players.  I taught my players how to show respect for people older than themselves and that trust and friendship can stretch between generations.  Many of my former players, whether in their thirties with families of their own or still in college, still keep in touch.  Even with the age difference, they always know they have a friend in their former coach.

It is with my friends that I like to joke about my age the most.  Often my response to the inquiry of how I am is a half-hearted, “Not bad for an old guy.”  Again, I hear repeatedly that I am not old.  I have always felt that my friends were sincere in their words because we got along so well, despite their youth in relation to my experience.  Ok…Ok…despite their being so much younger.

Tonight my age crept up on me like a runaway train!

My basketball team, in an over thirty league, had a game against our nemesis the green team.  This team has been able to find a way to beat us in many close games over the past couple of seasons.  Tonight looked like it would be different as we jumped to an early advantage.  Unfortunately, they switched their defense to man-to-man and cut into our lead.  Finally, in the second half, they claimed the lead before we were able to wrestle it back.  A late three-point shot by their shooting guard forced an overtime period.  In the extra three minutes, we outscored them by two points and secured the exciting win.  I was extremely proud of my team.

Problem is, it didn’t feel like I was part of the team.

Many of the players  on the team are closer to thirty than forty.  I of course am closer to fifty than I am forty.  We have a player on our team who has made himself the unofficial coach.  “Dr. J” is not the most knowledgable member of the team, but he is the loudest.  Tonight, he made the conscious decision to play “the old guy” as little as  possible.  I can’t say I blame him, these are young, competitive guys and the lead in the standings of the exercise league was on the line.  I too am competitive, but young is not a term I would use to describe myself.

At least, not after tonight.

“Dr. J” made it clear to me tonight that he wanted young people on the floor and that my services were not needed nor wanted.  Tonight, I was truly, no kidding around, the old guy.

As I drove home, I couldn’t help but wonder if others are feeling similar but just too nice to say anything.  It could be what I took as a rude slap in the face may have actually been a kind way of letting me know that I need to find more friends my own age.  Funny how quickly one goes from being one of the young crowd to one the young crowd puts up with.

This a lesson I will take with me in my journey through life.  It makes me wonder how people much older than myself must feel.  Clearly Bogey at 46 is much wiser than I was at 26.  Life’s experiences have taught me so much, and I am a better person for each lesson I have learned.  I must remember this when provided the opportunity to spend time with the elderly.  Their bodies may be weaker, and their voices may not carry the volume they once did, but there is no substitute for life experiences.

If I can take the lesson of tonight, the humiliation of being cast aside, and make it a part of me going forward, then I will be the better person for it.  I never want to be that person who doesn’t appreciate what experience has to offer.

I hope I can say that I relate well to the young and old.  I hope that I will not get to be so full of myself that I forget the feelings of others.  Whether a rookie or a seasoned veteran, I don’t want to be the coach that makes anyone feel forgotten on the bench during the game of life.

After all, young or old, everyone has something they can teach me on my road to 100.

March 26, 2010

Running For My Life

Filed under: Reflections — coachbogey @ 10:37 AM
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You never see someone jogging with a smile on their face.  That was the excuse a person with whom I used to teach provided while explaining why she never took up jogging.

This past weekend, the northeast finally saw some spring like weather.  It felt great to finally get off of the treadmill and jog outside.  I love to jog, but time on the treadmill seems to drag.  I think it is the fact that the timer is right in front of you, reminding you just how much longer you will be running in place.  More than once I have looked down, read that I had twenty minutes until I am done with my run, looked up at the TV, and the next time I looked down I had twenty-five minutes remaining.  Then when those numbers do finally reach zeros, the distance may read five miles, but when you look at the space in which you just spent 43 minutes of your life, you realize the actual distance covered was approximately two-and-a-half feet!

Jogging outside is different.  The fresh air, the change in scenery, the near misses of tractor trailers driving by too fast…ok, two out of three ain’t bad.  The point is, after being stuck in my cellar all winter, jogging outside is a nice change.  Besides, jogging outside is much more than just getting exercise.

Like most people these days, I am a very busy person.  I have two teenage sons who keep me going all the time.  I am vice president of a regional facility services provider that keeps me on the go starting at 6 AM each day.  I serve on three different committees in our church and at times assume extra roles such as helping with the youth groups.  I coach an AAU basketball team which practices a couple of times a week and plays in tournaments on the weekends.  Oh, just to make sure I was left with no idle time in which to get into trouble, I have been elected a selectman for the town in which I live.  Needless to say, I don’t get much down time to just turn off the brain and relax.  Jogging provides me that down time.

Once a jogger hits the road, there are no distractions, discounting the occasional loose dog who helps you pick up your pace.  The rhythmic pounding of your feet provides the perfect backdrop to just drift for a while.  There are periods when I will think about something that may be bothering me, and that time on the road allows me to work things through and keep things in proper perspective.  Other times I may be reconnecting with God, having a frank and honest discussion with the Lord about what is happening in my life.  Sometimes there are no organized thoughts at all, instead just taking in the surroundings of the beautiful town I call home.

I have found running can help me with the challenges of parenthood.  It is while on the open road that I can think through the latest escapade of my teenage boys and how to deal the fallout.  Being a quick-tempered individual, a five-mile run allows me the time to cool off, calm down, and come up with a rational response to a less than stellar report card or the wise ass answer to my last request.  Of course, sometimes this requires an eight or nine mile run.  If you see me in the midst of a twelve-mile run…well, don’t ask.

As I turn onto my street and sprint that final hill back to my house, I push myself as hard as I can.  It’s like a reminder that I am not only out here for my mental health, and some would question whether or not that’s working, but also for my physical health.  Once I reach the edge of my driveway, I finish with a brisk walk around the block.  While on my walk, I reflect on how great the run was for me; physically, mentally, and spiritually.

And that my friends, is when you will see this jogger smile.

March 18, 2010

Louisiana Purchase Helps Hawaii?

Filed under: Observation — coachbogey @ 9:24 AM
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Many people have been concerned about the special deals made to Senators to gain their support for the health care reform bill.  One of the most publicized special deals was the promise of hundreds of millions of dollars made to Louisiana for a yes vote by one of their senators.  During a very recent interview on Fox, President Obama justified the special deal by saying that the deal will benefit other states going through natural disasters… such as the earthquake in Hawaii.

This is how we justify the government taking over the nation’s health care?  If the bill is as good for the nation as Nancy Pelosi and President Obama claim, then these back room deals and new rules to allow representatives to vote for the bill without actually voting for the bill wouldn’t be necessary.  Why can’t this bill just stand on its own?

By the way, can anyone send me a link to the story about the earthquake in Hawaii?

March 17, 2010

Funny and Straight Forward

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This was forwarded to me today.  I am not sure this is 100% accurate, I don’t think Congress will be exempt from the health care reforms, but for the most part it is correct.  Either way, it is funny and expresses how many people feel.

“Let me get this straight……we’re trying to pass a health care plan written by a committee whose chairman says he doesn’t understand it, passed by a Congress that hasn’t read it but exempts themselves from it, to be signed by a president that also hasn’t read it and who smokes, with funding administered by a treasury chief who didn’t pay his taxes, all to be overseen by a surgeon general who is obese, and financed by a country that’s broke.

“What the hell could possibly go wrong????”

March 15, 2010

A Rainy Monday Morning

Filed under: Uncategorized — coachbogey @ 8:51 AM

Saw this on Michael Graham’s blog and though I’d share it.  Perfect antidote for a rainy Monday morning.

March 13, 2010

What Happened?

Filed under: Observation — coachbogey @ 5:43 PM
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Forgetting our Vice-President’s counting ability, he made it clear during the final push of the presidential campaign that jobs was at the top of the agenda should Barrack Obama be elected president.  He was elected president and instead of jobs being the top priority, President Obama has spent the first 25% of presidency focused on health care reform.  That focus on health care instead of jobs played a large role in the election of Scott Brown, a Republican put in place by the voters of one of the most liberal states in the Country to replace an icon in the Democratic Party.

It appeared that the message was received by the White House, for during the State of the Union address delivered on January 27 President Obama announced, “Jobs must be our number-one focus in 2010.”

Both parties of Congress gave the President a standing ovation at this point in the speech.  Congress, as well as the President, seemed to understand that putting people back to work should be the focus of their efforts going forward.

So what has the White House been focused since the State of the Union address?  Health Care Reform, of course.  Go to the White House web site and you’re bombarded with health care rhetoric.  And now it looks as if the White House has finally figured out a way to pass this unpopular piece of legislation, through reconciliation, and force it upon a population who don’t want it.

How will the Democrats bypass the will of the people? 

Before I get into that, how does a bill usually make it through Congress?  First, a bill will pass through the House of Representatives.  Often changes are made to appease enough members of the House to get the bill to pass.  The bill then moves on to the Senate.  Again, changes are made to garner enough votes for it to pass.  In the Senate, however, a senator (or group of senators) may filibuster against a bill, not allowing the bill to come to a vote.  A filibuster can be broken by a vote of 3/5 majority (60 out of 100).  Once a bill gets through the Senate, the bill then goes to a committee of senators and representatives.  The committee’s responsibility is to come to a compromise on the different versions of the bill that came out of the House and the Senate.  Once the compromise bill is reached, it goes back to the House for a second vote and then to the Senate for a second vote.  Once passed by both chambers, the single bill goes to the president for his signature.  That is what is supposed to happen.

In the case of President Obama’s Health Care Bill, the House of Representatives and the Senate each passed very different versions of the bill.  The two bills were then to go to committee to be rewritten as one bill.  While in committee, however, the Commonwealth of Massachusetts elected Scott Brown who had campaigned that he would be the 41st senator against the health care bill, therefore allowing a filibuster to keep the bill from ever being voted on by the Senate.  The people of Massachusetts, and according to every published poll I could find the citizens of the country, made it clear they did not want this health care bill to pass.  The election of Senator Brown seemed to kill the health care bill in its present state.

Not so fast.  Congressional Democrats and the White House have found a way to get this bill passed without having to worry about a senate filibuster.  Nancy Pelosi has pressured enough representatives to pass the senate version of the bill as it is presently written, without committee work to compromise between the two chambers.  The House will then pass a second bill to “fix” the first bill.  Both bills then move on out of the House.  The senate does not have to vote on a bill that it has already passed, so the health care bill will move on to the president.  The senate will vote on the “fix” bill the House passed in a process called reconciliation.  A reconciliation bill, by rule, is limited to 20 hours of debate, meaning it cannot be filibustered.  The Democratic leaders in the Senate have “promised to fix” the senate bill, but in fact may choose to fix some or none of the bill.  Either way, the Health Care Reform Bill makes it to the president for his signature.

It gets even better.  Democrats have had difficulty getting a bill that would allow a government takeover of the student loan program any where near the sixty votes required to push it through the Senate.  Nancy Pelosi has announced that she will attach the Student Loan Reform Bill to the “fixes” that get sent to the senate, which means Democrats can get this bill through without fear of filibuster as well.  What does student loans have to do with “fixes” to a health care bill.  Nothing really, but that isn’t the point.  Since Democrats have decided to take on health care on their own, they figure why not attach another piece of legislation they know will get filibustered if presented as a seperate bill.  It is very sneaky, but a brilliant way to get what you want when a large portion of the population doesn’t agree with you.

The government will takeover health care and student loans all at the same time.

Will it stop there?  Good question.  Many believe this is the first step to a single payer system such as Canada’s.

Canada’s single payer system seems to work fine except when you need actual serious care.  Take for example the case of Newfoundland and Labrador’s Premier Danny Williams (a premier is similar to a governor).  When he required a serious heart operation, he decided to take on the expense himself and travel to the United States for the operation. 

An unapologetic Danny Williams says he was aware his trip to the United States for heart surgery earlier this month would spark outcry, but he concluded his personal health trumped any public fallout over the controversial decision.

In an interview with The Canadian Press, Williams said he went to Miami to have a “minimally invasive” surgery for an ailment first detected nearly a year ago, based on the advice of his doctors.

“This was my heart, my choice and my health,” Williams said late Monday from his condominium in Sarasota, Fla.

“I did not sign away my right to get the best possible health care for myself when I entered politics.”

The 60-year-old Williams said doctors detected a heart murmur last spring and told him that one of his heart valves wasn’t closing properly, creating a leakage.

He said he was told at the time that the problem was “moderate” and that he should come back for a checkup in six months.

Eight months later, in December, his doctors told him the problem had become severe and urged him to get his valve repaired immediately or risk heart failure, he said.

His doctors in Canada presented him with two options – a full or partial sternotomy, both of which would’ve required breaking bones, he said.

He said he spoke with and provided his medical information to a leading cardiac surgeon in New Jersey who is also from Newfoundland and Labrador. He advised him to seek treatment at the Mount Sinai Medical Center in Miami.

That’s where he was treated by Dr. Joseph Lamelas, a cardiac surgeon who has performed more than 8,000 open-heart surgeries.

Williams said Lamelas made an incision under his arm that didn’t require any bone breakage.

A Canadian government official decides to come to the United States to have treatment he couldn’t get in Canada, and this is the direction the president and Mrs. Pelosi are trying to take us?   No wonder they need to bend the rules to get health care reform passed.

Of course, the bill isn’t actually complete yet.  And if you are thinking you would like to read it before it gets passed, well listen to what Speaker Pelosi said at the 2010 Legislative Conference for National Association of Counties on March 9th.

Now that’s transparency!

Scott Brown’s Radio Address

Filed under: Observation — coachbogey @ 2:53 PM
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Below is the transcript of Senator Scott Brown’s radio address.

 

“Hello, I’m United States Senator Scott Brown from the Commonwealth of Massachusetts.

“When the people of my state elected me in January, they sent more than a senator to Washington – they sent a message. Across party lines, the voters told politicians in Washington to get its priorities right.

“And from my travels and conversation with people throughout this country, they told me that they want their President and Congress to focus on creating jobs and reviving America’s economy. Instead, for more than a year now, we have seen a bitter, destructive, and endless drive to completely transform America’s health care system.

“In January of last year, unemployment hit 7.2 percent and our economy was hurting badly. But, early in President Obama’s term, he and the Democratic leadership of Congress made takeover of health care their first priority.

“Today, times are even tougher across our nation when it comes to our economy. Nearly one in ten Americans are still out of work. And still, the President and Congress are focused on ramming through their health-care bill, whatever it takes, whatever the cost.

“Maybe you remember what President Obama promised in his State of the Union address. He said he was going to finally focus on jobs and the economy for the remainder of this year. I applauded him for that. Well, here it is, it’s almost spring. And what is he out there talking about again? That same 2,700-page, multi-trillion dollar health care legislation.

“So, an entire year has gone to waste. Millions of Americans have lost their jobs, and many more jobs are in danger. Even now, the President still hasn’t gotten the message.

“Somehow, the greater the public opposition to the health care bill, the more determined they seem to force it on us anyway. Their attitude shows Washington at its very worst – the presumption that they know best, and they’re going to get their way whether the American people like it or not.

“And, when politicians start thinking like that, they don’t let anything get in their way – not public opinion, not the rules of fair play, not even their own promises.

“They pledged transparency. Instead, we have a health care bill tainted by secrecy, concealed cost, and full of backroom deals– and that’s just not right. They should do better. The American people expect more.

“They pledged a true bipartisan effort. Instead, they have resorted to bending the rules, and they now intend to seize control of health care in America on a strict party-line vote.

“In speech after speech on his health care plan, the President has tried to convince us that what he is proposing will be good for America. But, how can it be good for America if it raises taxes by a half trillion dollars and costs a trillion dollars or more to implement? In addition, how can it be good if it takes another half a trillion dollars away from seniors on Medicare, and still includes all the backroom deals you have been hearing about for months?

“Well, for the past year or more, the new establishment in Washington has tried again and again to sell this plan to the American people. But the Americans aren’t buying it, and for good reason. And now, what’s going on is a last, desperate power play. They actually tell us that passing the bill is necessary, if only to prove that something can get done in Washington.

“Well, I haven’t been here very long, but, I can tell you this much already: Nothing has distracted the attention and energy of the nation’s capital more than this disastrous detour. And, the surest way to return to the people’s business is to listen to the people themselves: We need to drop this whole scheme of federally controlled health care, start over, and work together on real reforms at the state level that will contain costs and won’t leave America trillions of dollars deeper in debt.

“This, above all, was the message that the people of my state sent to the President and the Congress in the election over a month ago.

“You know some of my Democratic colleagues, you know, are being leaned on mighty hard right now. Speaker Pelosi and others are handing down their marching orders, telling them to vote for this bill no matter what. Rarely have elected leaders been so intent on defying the public will. For many members of Congress, the time for choosing is near – do what the party leadership demands, or do what the people have asked you to do. If my colleagues don’t mind some advice from a newcomer, I’d suggest going with the will of the people.

“After all, from the very beginning of this debate, the American people have called it correctly. In every part of the country, Republicans and Democrats have agreed on serious, straightforward, commonsense health care reform. They expect us in Washington to do the same – working together, acting fairly and by the rules, and staying focused on the need to make the American economy as strong as it can be. That is the business that brought me here on an unexpected journey to Washington. And, it’s the responsibility of everyone sent here to serve our country. We can do better – and I challenge my colleagues and the President to do just that.

“I’m Senator Scott Brown and thank you very much for listening.”

March 2, 2010

The Unpatriotic Skeptic

Filed under: Observation — coachbogey @ 6:42 PM
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I was a sixth grade teacher for ten years.  One lesson I tried to convey to every student I taught was to not be afraid to ask questions.  I explained to my students that they should never be ashamed to ask questions, that questions were they key to a better understanding of the world as they got older.  I taught them that even adults ask questions when they are unsure of things or if something doesn’t sound right. 

Now there are some people who believe that if you question authority you are being unpatriotic.

I came across a video of television science teacher Bill Nye appearing as a guest on the Rachel Maddow show.  The interview was to center around the recent heavy snowstorms that have hit the Washington DC area.  Bill Nye answered the questions, but then took it further.

Now, I understand that Bill Nye is passionate about his beliefs.  He is clearly convinced that climate change is real and that something must be done about right away.  In fact, he is not the only one.  Senator Byrd (D-West Virginia), while debating climate change and cap-and-trade energy policy, made it clear that Congress needs to do something to stem the damage man is doing to the earth.

When it comes to climate change, sounds like some are using a two-headed coin. 

Senator Byrd says look outside in Washington.  Only one storm resulting in just three inches of snow in 2002.  A warm winter that, according to Sen. Byrd, clearly indicates that something must be done immediately. 

But wait, now Washington is facing one of the snowiest winters in years, so what does that mean?

Bill Nye says one can’t look at the weather and determine whether or not climate change is real.  He then says that the extra storm activity is actually an indicator of the extra energy in the atmosphere caused by climate change.

Huh?  And I am unpatriotic because I am questioning whether or not man has caused the climate of the planet to change?

I have heard people recently point to the warmer than usual temperatures in the Northwestern United States and Canada, and the colder temperatures in Texas, as well as the crazy weather from Washington to New York, and claim that there is evidence that climate change is real.  Actually, the weather for this winter was accurately predicted, and explained, by Accuweather’s Joe Bastardi in an interview on July 15, 2009.

Children love to watch Bill Nye the Science Guy on television.  Watching him is fine, but I will remind my former students that you are not unpatriotic if you questions things about which you are uncertain.

In fact, I encourage it.

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